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Thursday, May 21, 2026

The Rich Man and Lazarus (and Atheism)

Artwork showing the rich man enjoying a feast in his home, with Lazarus outside his door. Image source. 

In Luke 16:19-31, Jesus tells this parable:

“There was a rich man who was dressed in purple and fine linen and lived in luxury every day. At his gate was laid a beggar named Lazarus, covered with sores and longing to eat what fell from the rich man’s table. Even the dogs came and licked his sores.

“The time came when the beggar died and the angels carried him to Abraham’s side. The rich man also died and was buried. In Hades, where he was in torment, he looked up and saw Abraham far away, with Lazarus by his side. So he called to him, ‘Father Abraham, have pity on me and send Lazarus to dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue, because I am in agony in this fire.’

“But Abraham replied, ‘Son, remember that in your lifetime you received your good things, while Lazarus received bad things, but now he is comforted here and you are in agony. And besides all this, between us and you a great chasm has been set in place, so that those who want to go from here to you cannot, nor can anyone cross over from there to us.’

“He answered, ‘Then I beg you, father, send Lazarus to my family, for I have five brothers. Let him warn them, so that they will not also come to this place of torment.’

“Abraham replied, ‘They have Moses and the Prophets; let them listen to them.’

“‘No, father Abraham,’ he said, ‘but if someone from the dead goes to them, they will repent.’

“He said to him, ‘If they do not listen to Moses and the Prophets, they will not be convinced even if someone rises from the dead.’”

Reading this parable now, I'm astounded at how the meaning of it is so completely different from how I understood it when I was evangelical.

Here's how I interpret this story now: Jesus introduces us to 2 characters, a rich man and a very poor man. The poor man, Lazarus, begs outside of the rich man's house, for years, but the rich man does not do anything to help him. In the afterlife, Lazarus goes to heaven and the rich man goes to hell- Lazarus goes to heaven because he suffered so much on earth, so he deserves to have a better life, and the rich man goes to hell because he had a good life on earth but didn't help the poor. Jesus doesn't directly state that these are the reasons they went to heaven/hell; it's treated like it's just obvious. Also, these reasons are emphasized by what Abraham tells the rich man- that in his earthly life, the rich man had good things, while Lazarus suffered.

Now that the rich man understands how serious it is that rich people need to help poor people, otherwise they will go to hell and be in agony forever, he asks Abraham to send Lazarus to go and warn his brothers about this. But Abraham says, no, they should already know, because they have access to the teachings of Moses and the prophets. The rich man knows that his brothers won't take Moses and the prophets seriously, because he didn't either during his life, but surely if someone comes back from the dead, that will convince them.

And Abraham says, no, "If they do not listen to Moses and the Prophets, they will not be convinced even if someone rises from the dead."

The main point of this story is our obligation to help others. And also, that someday there will be justice- God will help people who suffered on earth, and send rich people to hell for not doing anything to help.

The secondary point is, rich people should know this. They have the teachings of Moses and the prophets, or other religions, or moral philosophies. Of course they are able to realize that they have a moral obligation to help others. But they don't want to. They will make excuses. The rich man in the story says his brothers will definitely believe if they see someone come back from the dead, but Abraham tells him, no, they'll still make excuses.

You shouldn't need a miracle, or a religion, or anything like that. It's obvious that people who have enough money for their own life should give to help others. And if you don't accept that basic obvious fact of morality, then even if you did see a miracle, you would still come up with reasons to ignore the people in need around you.

Just reading the parable by itself, without bringing in any of one's own beliefs about heaven and hell, it seems pretty clear that this is what it's saying. If you are rich, you need to use your money to help others, otherwise you will go to hell.

But of course, for evangelicals, Jesus can't possibly be saying that.

Evangelicals "know" the criteria for getting into heaven or hell: It's not about what you do, it's only about your faith in Jesus. If you believe in Jesus, and you "prayed the prayer" to commit your life to him, you will go to heaven. If you didn't do that, then by default you go to hell, because everyone is a sinner and deserves to go to hell. 

Evangelicals strongly disagree with the idea that people go to heaven just because they had a bad life and God feels bad for them. No! God has actual standards! You have to have the correct faith; God's not going to let you in just because They feel bad for you. And as for the rich man going to hell because he didn't help Lazarus- evangelicals would say, there totally are rich people that go to heaven, don't worry if you're a rich person- but maybe it's a little more difficult for rich people because they tend to rely on their money rather than realizing they need Jesus. And of course God *wants* you to use your money to help others, so if you *truly* believe in Jesus (at the level required to go to heaven) then you would do that, but let's be clear, going to heaven does not hinge on whether you helped others, it hinges on your faith in Jesus.

So we have this situation where evangelicals are totally sure this parable cannot mean what it obviously means. (Similar thing for the parable of the sheep and the goats.) Lazarus must have gone to heaven because he believed in Jesus- yeah that's not mentioned at all in the story, but that was definitely the actual reason, despite Abraham's words, "in your lifetime you received your good things, while Lazarus received bad things, but now he is comforted here and you are in agony." And the rich man went to hell because he didn't believe in Jesus- and if he had believed in Jesus, then his faith would have inspired him to help Lazarus. And when he talks about sending Lazarus to warn his brothers, he means sending Lazarus to tell them about the necessity of believing in Jesus. And the rich man says that his brothers won't believe just based on Moses and the prophets- I mean, yeah, when you're trying to convince someone of a particular religious doctrine, and your argument is "here are some ancient religious writings" this usually fails to convince them to convert to your religion. The rich man says it would convince them to give up their atheism if they saw an actual resurrection, but that's actually not true either. Atheists are really stubborn and unreasonable like that.

Wait, what? Why are we suddenly criticizing atheists...?

Yes, seriously, this is the interpretation of the parable I had when I was evangelical: There *is* enough evidence, from the bible, from "Moses and the Prophets," that people should *know* they are supposed to believe in Jesus and commit their lives to him. But when you talk to actual atheists, they tell you that's not enough evidence. They may give you examples of what kind of miracles they would have to see, that *would* count as evidence of the supernatural- but they're actually lying about that. Like Jesus says here, even if they saw someone come back from the dead, they would still not believe. So don't feel bad about how your apologetics arguments fail to convince those atheists. It's a *them* problem!

Yes, really. Evangelicals take this parable about how rich people need to help poor people, or else the rich people will go to hell, and turn it into this bizarre cheap shot at atheists. It's such a weird feeling for me, reading this now when I'm so far removed from evangelical ideology, realizing how obviously Jesus' point is that rich people need to help others (or else they will go to hell!) and somehow evangelicals managed to make it not about that at all- because evangelicals already know that the way to get into heaven is believing in Jesus- and then take this line at the end and turn it into a claim that "you know how your atheist friends say they would believe in God if you had better evidence? Well actually they're lying about that."

The rich man in hell wants to send Lazarus to tell his brothers how to avoid going to hell- and so evangelicals know that obviously means he wants Lazarus to tell them to believe in Jesus. That's how you avoid going to hell. Like we're so committed to this idea that faith in Jesus is the be-all-end-all, *the* answer for how to go to heaven, that we don't even read Jesus' actual words in front of us. (Even if we saw someone rise from the dead, we still wouldn't read Jesus' actual words in front of us.)

Try this on for size: This is a parable about rich Christians who don't use their money to help others. They should know that they're supposed to do that. They have Moses and the prophets. They have the bible. They even believe that Someone rose from the dead, and this still fails to convince them that they need to give money to help others.

How many Christians do we see right now, who are sure that Christianity is about political power and making rules to control other people, rather than helping the poor? Jesus was right. His followers believe He rose from the dead, but we still won't do what he said.

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Sheep and Goats

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White Privilege and the Rich Young Ruler

Tuesday, April 28, 2026

On just giving people money

Cow and calf. Image source.

Here's a good post from Ozy Brennan: The joys of cash benchmarking. It's about comparing the results from a charity program (for example, giving cows to poor people) to the results for a different charity program which used the same amount of money, but just directly gave the money to the recipients, rather than giving them a specific thing or service. Ozy says that the majority of the time, cash outperforms other charity programs, when you measure the effects on people's health, economic situation, etc, and therefore our default stance should be to just give people cash, unless we have a good reason to think that some other approach will outperform cash.

The default thing to do with your altruistic dollars should be:

1. Find the poorest person you can.

2. Give them some money.

If you do anything with your altruistic dollars other than find the poorest person you can and give them money, you should have an explanation for why this is better than finding the poorest person you can and giving them money.

The post says that there definitely *are* charity programs that outperform cash- for example, preventative health care, like vaccines and anti-malarial mosquito nets. It's often the case that people don't take initiative and choose to spend their money on preventative health care (I think when you're extremely poor, you never have enough money for everything, and there will always be some other expense that feels more urgent than preventative health care), *but* if you do that math, it is better and more cost-effective to spend money on preventative health care rather than taking your chances on getting sick.

So because this is a known weakness of human psychology, charities can help by specifically providing preventative health care, and this can be more effective than giving cash. So yes, some charities do outperform cash- but most do not, and Ozy argues that in general you should just give cash unless you have a good reason to think a particular program will outperform cash.

And yes, there are charities that straight-up give cash to people living in extreme poverty, like GiveDirectly.

So, while I was reading this post, I felt like... Intuitively, I think it can sometimes be good to spend money on a specific *thing* instead of just transferring cash directly to the recipients, even if statistically that is "less effective." But maybe I'm wrong about that? So I want to think through it, and write this post about it.

Ozy is coming from an effective altruist perspective, and the whole idea behind effective altruism is that we should give money to charity in a way that maximizes the amount of good that results from it, as measured in lives saved and improvements to people's health and quality of life. But I think, for people who aren't effective altruists, there's sort of a different motive when donating to charity: You have an idea in your head for how you want the world to be, and you give money to a charity that is working to move things in that direction.

So, for example, the charity that gives people cows. Imagine a poor person, living in extreme poverty in the developing world. Now imagine that they are given a cow, and they then have the benefits of getting milk from it, or killing it and selling the meat. That world seems to be a better world than the world where they don't have a cow- and guess what, *you* can make it happen! You can change the "this specific poor person does not have a cow" world into the "this specific poor person has a cow" world.

Whereas the "giving people money" story looks more like, imagine a poor person, struggling to have enough money to meet their basic needs for food, shelter, and health care. Okay, now give them a few hundred dollars. Well, that's great, that will help them a lot with whatever their current needs are- but they're still living in extreme poverty. It doesn't really change the situation. This is a much more boring story than the "give them a cow" story.

(I notice that on GiveDirectly's website, they have a bunch of examples of how the recipients used the money to start a business that totally turned their life around. This is because donors want to imagine that the world where people receive this money is a world that looks different- in obvious ways, which feel good to the donors- from the world where they don't. But realistically, I don't think most of the recipients are using it for something that makes for a good story. I think they're using it for things they really need.)

But if you think about it for a second, you'll realize that it's more helpful for someone to receive money equivalent to the price of a cow, rather than receiving a cow. If the recipient believes a cow would benefit them, they can go buy one- so, this is the same result as if they were just given a cow. And if they feel like something else would help them more, then they can use the money for something else. So, they have more options than just getting a cow- so this is better. (And maybe you've had the experience where you are having financial problems, because of something boring like rent or medical debt- and then someone gives you a juice machine as a birthday gift, and you're like, well, that's nice, but I would have preferred to just have the money.)

Anyway, in the cow example, I do agree that in general you shouldn't donate to charity programs to "give someone a cow", and should donate to something else instead. As a donor, you imagine that hypothetical world where some poor person receives a cow, and how that's better than the current existing world- but I think there is such a huge difference between our lives and the lives of people living in extreme poverty, and therefore, whatever we're imagining about the lives of people in extreme poverty, it's probably wrong. So, not really a good idea to make decisions based on that. Give it to the recipients as money, because they actually know their own situation.

(However, for a donor who is either going to donate to the "give someone a cow" charity or not donate at all, "give someone a cow" is the better option! There are plenty of people who donate in that way, so, it does make sense that such a charity exists.)

I think it's often true that when people donate their money, they aren't trying to help the recipients as effectively as possible, but they're trying to address a specific problem. For example, if you give money to an organization that helps victims of domestic violence. This is not because you want to help these victims *in general* but you want to help them with problems that were caused by the domestic violence. Right? Maybe I shouldn't speak for everyone, but when *I* donate money, it's not because "I want to make people's lives better overall" but more like "I want to counter the effects that this specific problem has had on people's lives." (Or, "I want to prevent this problem from happening.") Effective altruists would strongly disagree with this- the entire point of effective altruism is that we should do whatever gives the most benefit (when you measure lives saved, health, quality of life, etc), and we should *not* focus on a specific problem. So the top charities recommended by effective altruists are charities that fight malaria, because the way the math worked out, those ones save the most lives per dollar. Not because there's any particular reason that we should care about malaria more than other problems. 

But I'm not an effective altruist; I see specific problems in the world and I want to do something about them, because I have feelings about them, rather than doing something about other problems that I don't have feelings about.

So, maybe I'm wrong about this, but I do feel that "I want to help people with some specific problem that emotionally resonates with me" is okay. It doesn't have to be about "I want to help in whatever way does the most good."

But also, sometimes this leads to weird results. For example, suppose you have a family member who has some specific disease, call it Disease A. And so you want to help people who have Disease A. You donate to an organization (let's call them Charity B) that pays the hospital bills for their treatment.

But then, another charity comes along, Charity C. And Charity C says, yes it's great that Charity B is paying for people's medical treatment, but in practical terms this often is not good enough- the medical treatment is still inaccessible because there are very few hospitals which can provide the treatment, so most patients have to pay a lot of money to travel, in order to get the free treatment that Charity B is paying for- and many patients can't afford the travel costs, so they can't get treatment at all. But, good news, Charity C has been set up specifically to pay for people's travel costs, hotel, lost wages, etc, all that overhead that is necessary in order for them to even come and get the treatment.

And so, since you care about people who are affected by Disease A, you decide you also need to donate to Charity C. You hadn't realized that many of these patients couldn't access the benefits of Charity B, but of course you want them to be able to. So, you reason, yes we need Charity C.

And then another charity comes along, Charity D. And they say, there's another disease, Disease E, whose symptoms are pretty much the same as Disease A, but it doesn't get any media coverage. So, this is really unlucky for people who have Disease E, because they are pretty much having all the same problems as people with Disease A, but they're not eligible for any of the support from Charity B or Charity C. A new charity has been started, Charity D, to help people with Disease E.

And so you donate to Charity D too- because your original motive for donating is that you knew someone who had Disease A, and so you care about people who have Disease A- but in your opinion, Disease A is pretty much the same thing as Disease E. If your relative had had Disease E rather than Disease A, well, it would have been the same thing, from your perspective.

So there are always going to be cases along the lines of "I'm donating money to help people with some certain problem. Oh, but, turns out, there's another problem which is pretty much the same as that problem, but which doesn't fall under the technical definition that the charity is using to choose its recipients." 

Wouldn't it be easier to skip all this and just find the poorest person and give them cash? 

There's sort of a mismatch... the donor has this idea in their head about what the problem is and how to help with it, and the charity has a program that is doing concrete things related to that problem- but the practical implementation of it probably looks very different from whatever fantasy the donor is imagining.

Anyway, I just wanted to write down my thoughts on this, because when reading Ozy's post I had this feeling like it *can* be a good thing to donate to a charity that does a specific thing, rather than giving cash and letting the recipients choose what to do with it- even if it's not like one of Ozy's examples where data shows it's "more effective." Maybe as a donor, you don't want the recipients to just choose whatever they feel is most useful, but you want to help them with a specific problem. I don't think that's a bad thing, but it's definitely something we should be aware of and think about. How to balance what you want, as a donor, with what the recipients feel is most useful. (Effective altruism says we shouldn't balance this at all, but only do what the data has shown to be most effective in improving people's lives.) 

Also, if we're talking about helping people in extreme poverty in developing countries, most of their problems do stem from the fact that they don't have enough money, so I agree that it's better to give them money rather than giving them something that feels "fun" to the donor, like a cow. There's not going to be some cool clever trick that totally changes their lives- the problem is poverty, the problem is money. The problem is not that it just never occurred to them that there are benefits to owning a cow.

But if you want to help people in the US, or other developed countries, who are having a problem that you relate to and you feel is important (note that effective altruists don't do this at all- they give their money to developing countries because a dollar goes much farther for recipients in extreme poverty), then I think there is more room for the donor's own feelings and opinions on how they *want* the problem to be solved. What kind of world they want to work towards, rather than just what's going to be most immediately useful to the recipients.

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Also, if you want to just give people cash, you can donate to GiveDirectly

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Wednesday, January 7, 2026

Donating to Charity

Button that says "Donate." Image source.

Hi all, every year in January I write a post encouraging people to donate to charity. My approach is to make a decision in January about what percent of your income you will donate this year, and then keep track of whatever donations you make throughout the year, and then at the end of the year, check the amount and donate the last chunk to get to the goal amount.

It's a good idea to do automatic monthly donations because then it still happens even if you aren't thinking about it.

I want to encourage everyone, if you are in a good position financially yourself, to think about this and make a decision, rather than just donating haphazardly.

Sunday, July 6, 2025

"Portfolios of the Poor" (book review)

Book cover for "Portfolios of the Poor"

I read the book Portfolios of the Poor: How the World's Poor Live on $2 a Day by Daryl Collins, Jonathan Morduch, Stuart Rutherford, and Orlanda Ruthven. I enjoyed this book! Here's my review of it.

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Overview of the book

This book is about research into the financial lives of people whose income is somewhere around $2/day. The researchers tracked several hundred households in Bangladesh, India, and South Africa, asking them very detailed questions, in order to get a clear picture of every single inflow and outflow of money in their household. This even includes really informal stuff like if you owe a shopkeeper $3 because you bought groceries on credit. The kind of stuff that people wouldn't really think to mention normally, and/or that researchers usually wouldn't think to ask about. (The authors reported that they needed several conversations with the participating households in order to really get all the details, because at the beginning they didn't have a good enough understanding of all the things they should ask about.) The book refers to the data collected as "financial diaries" because the goal is to track all the small day-to-day transactions.

(This research took place around 1999-2005 and the book was published in 2009.)

Usually, when you see statistics on global poverty, it's about people's annual income or average income per day. But if you only measure those things, you're missing a lot of what's actually happening. These researchers found that the turnover that these poor households had was very big, compared to their total income. They were constantly lending or borrowing money, in various types of formal or informal arrangements, they had all kinds of different strategies for saving, etc. 

The actual reality of what it means to live on $2/day is much more sophisticated than you'd expect.

The book says that for the households that participated in these studies, the problem isn't just that their income is low. There are actually 3 problems that make their financial lives difficult:

  1. Low incomes
  2. Irregular, unpredictable incomes. Most of the people in the study didn't have regular, salaried jobs. (Some of them did, and that was definitely a huge benefit to them.) Their income often came in irregular amounts, at unpredictable frequencies. Also, farmers often get most of their income during certain seasons of the year, and hardly anything during other seasons.
  3. Lack of financial tools. Poor people don't have access to the same financial tools (savings accounts, credit cards, etc) that I am familiar with. The fact is, though, that poor households need these tools even more than rich households do. One of the big messages of this book is that it would make a big difference if a wider variety of financial services was available to poor people.
So it's not just about "they live on less than 2 dollars a day." It's actually worse than that.

The book says that there are 3 main areas that should be considered when we look at how people manage their money. 

  1. Normal, day-to-day expenses
  2. Saving up for big expenses. For example, capital for a business, weddings, paying for children's education.
  3. Emergencies. When you suddenly need to borrow money because of medical expenses, a funeral, replacing an asset that was damaged or stolen, etc.

For each of these, there is a chapter in the book that talks about the strategies that the diary households used.

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Making it relatable and human

There's something that has bothered me for a long time about the way that people talk about global poverty. It's like... when I hear statistics about how many millions of people don't have access to clean water, or how many millions of people are living on less than $2 a day, etc, I feel like, I can't even imagine what that's like. It sounds so terrible, I can't even picture how a person can live under those circumstances. It's the sort of thing that makes one want to just throw money at a charity so then one can stop thinking about it. 

Hearing statistics about millions or billions of people living on $2 a day- it doesn't feel like they're real people, like me or anybody I know. It comes across like they are caricatures who don't really do anything or have any thoughts besides just sitting around being sad and desperate (and they need YOU to swoop in and donate money so they can get out of that state).

I once saw an article about a photographer in Africa who would take 2 different photos of each person- one photo that portrayed that kind of one-dimensional, people-in-Africa-are-just-sad-and-poor message, and another photo that showed some personality, showed the person in a setting that communicates something about who they are as a unique person. (I can't find a link to this- but if you have also heard of this and you happen to have a link, please leave it in the comment section.) I'm really interested in the way this photographer explored the stereotypes that western people have about Africa, and how that feeds into the sorts of images that are shared, and the way we talk about people.

And the ads that a lot of global poverty charities use- like, they find the saddest picture of a poor child they can find. It comes across like the child is not a whole person- that the only thing that matters about them is they don't have food/water/etc, and they don't really have a personality or feelings or dreams beyond that.

So I like this book because it takes these big scary statistics about "$2 a day" and shows you what that really looks like, how humans whose lives are just as complex as mine or yours or anybody else's keep their lives moving forward in those circumstances. 

The authors point out that none of the households in the study lived "hand to mouth", ie, spending all of their money immediately after getting it. All of them had some kind of savings strategy.

And also, you can see in all the examples throughout the book, which described the circumstances of specific households in the study, that there's a whole range of personality types here. Some people talked about how they didn't like to ask others for money, and preferred to be independent as much as they could, while other people were constantly getting into financial arrangements with everybody. Some people chose not to take microfinance loans because it felt like too much of a risk, others were happy to have access to such loans. Some people were very skeptical the first time they heard about microfinance institutions offering savings accounts, and weren't willing to open one until their friends tried it and told them how it went. All of this feels very real and human to me. It feels very different from just hearing a statistic about global poverty and thinking it's so terrible that I can't even imagine it.

The thing is, though, for some reason learning about the practical human details makes it feel like... less urgent that we take action to help? Charity appeals are like "oh noooo this is so bad, these people are so desperate, if you don't donate money then what are they going to do?????" (The book isn't about charity at all, but this is something I think about.) But the reality is more like, they have ways to scrape by. They are able to plan ahead, and ask family members or neighbors for loans, and so on. Does that make global poverty seem less bad? 

It *is* bad; we shouldn't lose sight of that. The world has enough resources that nobody should live in poverty like that, where they don't know if they'll be able to get their basic needs met. The people described in this book... yeah, the book is about how they're able to manage, and take care of themselves even on such low incomes, but the reality is that it just doesn't work as well when you're living on so little money. People die from medical issues which are no big deal to those of us who have access to good medical care. They have to deal with constant annoyances- unreliable housing, low-quality food, chronic health issues, physically demanding jobs- which could be avoided if only they had more money.

They get by, but not as well as people who aren't impoverished. They get by, but with a much lower life expectancy than people in "developed" countries.

When a potential donor hears "oh nooo these people are so desperate, they need you to send money, or what are they going to do????" that comes across differently than "these people are really in need and you should help by donating money. If they can't raise enough money, their back-up plan is xyz." Like, realistically, usually there is a back-up plan. But you don't *mention* the back-up plan, or else that will make the donors suddenly decide "oh, never mind then."

Or, I guess you can mention the back-up plan if it sounds really terrible, like maybe on a gofundme someone might write "if they're not able to raise enough money, they will be forced to sell their home!"

Has anyone studied the psychology of this- the way potential donors feel like they're off the hook if the potential recipients are portrayed in a realistic human way, taking charge of their lives and making choices about how to move forward even in a bad situation? 

People living on $2/day truly are impoverished and it would make a big difference if we donated money to help them. *But* they're not just sitting around hoping that will happen. They manage their own lives. They make plans related to their finances. Why does that make me *feel* like I don't have an obligation to help them? It's something about being unable to realistically weigh other people's needs and my own needs, I think.

But anyway, the book isn't about charity at all. It wasn't anything about "we should donate money to help them." Its message about how to help them was more like "their government and/or private businesses should invest in infrastructure that can provide them with savings accounts and loans." People manage their own financial lives- but it really helps a lot if they have access to tools that enable them to do that, just like rich people have access to such tools.

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Some financial tools that poor people use

The book described some financial tools that the diary participants used, which I wasn't familiar with. For example:

Savings clubs. This is an informal arrangement where a group of people get together at regular intervals, and each time, they all contribute a certain amount of money, and they take turns taking home the whole pot. For example, you get together with 4 friends (5 people total) once a week, you each put in 6 dollars, and then once every 5 weeks you get to take home the whole $30.

What's the point of this? Well, for some people, depending on their situation, they find it doable to put in small amounts of money at frequent intervals, as a way to save up a usefully large amount of money. Yeah, but why do they need the savings club? Why not just save up the money on their own? Well, they may find it helpful having the social pressure to stick to their plan. And they might not have a good way to keep money safe in their home- there is a risk that it could be stolen, or spent by family members, or just spent by themself when they're not really paying attention to whatever their savings target is supposed to be for that week.

A similar example: Some poor households in South Africa received grants from the government every month. But, receiving the money at a frequency of 1 time per month did not work well for managing their day-to-day cash flow. So some people would pair up and make an arrangement where 1 person receives their money at the beginning of the month, and gives part of it to the other. And when the other person receives their money in the middle of the month, they give part of it to the first person. In this way, the government grant money is split up so they receive it twice a month instead of once a month- which was much more convenient.

Funeral insurance. In South Africa, funerals are expensive, and people have come up with various ways to insure themselves in case a family member dies and they need to pay for a funeral. There are formal arrangements with insurance companies, and there are informal arrangements with "burial societies." For example, there are burial societies where, if a member dies, all the other members need to contribute a certain amount for the funeral. Or, there are also burial societies where everyone contributes money on a regular basis, and it is kept in some kind of savings account, and then if someone dies, their family receives a payout.

Many of the South African diary households had multiple forms of funeral insurance, because none of them paid out enough to cover the full cost.

Moneyguards. Sometimes people deposit money with the moneyguard, for safekeeping. This is helpful if you are concerned about money being stolen or being spent by your family members. But there's a risk- what if you want your money back, but the moneyguard doesn't have it at that moment?

Also, sometimes the researchers had trouble understanding what exactly was going on when the diary participants said they put some money with the neighbor. Does this mean you gave the neighbor a loan? Does it mean you deposited money with them for safekeeping? The tools that poor people use to manage their money don't always easily match up with the categories of financial tools we are familiar with.

The financial tools varied a lot in terms of how convenient they were, and how reliable they were. There were examples in the book of people who joined a savings club, and the savings club fell apart and they ended up losing money. You always have to consider the risk that comes with any of these options.

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It's about how to add up small sums to make big sums

The book emphasized that for the people in this study, they don't have big sums of money laying around to pay for big expenses, but they *do* have small incomes which can be used to save small sums on a regular basis- so they need financial tools which can help them turn these small amounts saved up over time into big amounts.

For example, various kinds of savings accounts or savings clubs, where people are required to frequently pay in small amounts of money, and then at some point they can withdraw a big amount. Or loans- they get a big lump sum of money and then pay it back in small frequent payments. From the perspective of the poor people in this study, savings accounts and loans were pretty much the same thing. Both of them allow you to make small, regular payments, and then withdraw a big amount of money when you need it. This was surprising to me because I always heard that saving money is good and taking out loans is bad- in my mind, savings accounts and loans are complete opposites.

This concept of "these people *can't* pay for big things, but they *can* put aside small amounts of money frequently, and pay for big things that way, so they need access to financial tools that do that" is hard for me to get my head around. If you can't pay $30 one time, but you can pay $3 every week for 10 weeks, well, what? Isn't that the exact same thing? Why can they do one but not the other? Why do they need tools to help them?

I feel like I'm missing something about how to understand the psychology of this. Or rather, I feel like the way the people's budgets actually work in the real world (not just the poor people in this book, but basically everyone) is like this: It's not about "we planned out the correct amount for each category in our budget, which is more or less the minimum we feel we need to have a good life, and all the rest goes to savings." It's more like, you have a vague sense of how much money is available to you, and your lifestyle sort of naturally expands to match.

I think that "personal responsibility" Republicans might frame it as being "self-disciplined" and view it as a moral failure if you can't manage to save up money because you lack good financial tools. But the truth is, it really does take work. Let's say you want to save up $3 a week for 10 weeks. So, every week, you need to have an awareness of what your savings amount is supposed to be, and you need to make sure that you don't accidentally spend it as you pay for your normal life expenses. Remembering what the number is supposed to be, remembering to update the number in your head every week, communicating this number and its importance to your family members so they don't spend it (and/or just hiding the cash from them, maybe that's easier), always knowing how much you have left every time you make a purchase- this is work. And what if you're saving up for multiple things, with different timelines... 

If it was me, I would make a Excel sheet to keep track of this. (Actually, many of the study participants were illiterate, and were just mentally keeping track of their informal loans with their neighbors. Interesting.)

It truly is work to continually make sure you're saving the right amount of money for future expenses. So of course it's helpful for poor people to have access to financial tools which will do that work for them. Even though sometimes those financial tools will charge fees. Here's a quote from pages 148-149:

An example from India shows us just how important these elements [reliability, flexibility, structure that works with a household's cash-flow timing] are to the poor saver. Jyothi works in the southern city of Vijaywada and was described in an earlier book by one of our authors. Jyothi is a middle-aged woman living in the slums she served, and her service consisted simply of walking round the slum each day collecting small deposits from her customers, most of them housewives. She gave them a crude passbook, just a card divided into 220 cells made up of 20 columns and 11 rows, so that savers could keep track of their progress. When all 220 cells were ticked off, Jyothi returned the savings to the value of 200 of the 220 cells, holding back the remaining 20 cells' worth as her fee for her service. Thus someone depositing a total of $44 with her, as 20 cents a day, would get back $40. If we consider this 20-cell fee as interest, and we assume a growing balance as 220 deposits are made over 220 days, then Jyothi is effectively paying her customers a negative rate on the savings-- minus 30 percent a year. Put this fact to the savers and they will tell you to forget your fancy calculations: the fact is that they needed their $40 to ensure that they could pay school fees to keep their children in class for another year. With husbands earning irregularly, the only sure way to build up this sum was to take pennies from the housekeeping money each day and hand it over to Jyothi. It costs them only $4 to form the $40, and Jyothi did all the work. Taken within this context, this is a reasonable price to pay to build badly needed savings.

I don't think we should view this as "poor people are not self-disciplined enough." I think there are plenty of examples in our lives where people choose to put pressure or restrictions on themselves, to force themselves to follow through with good habits they are trying to maintain. You might know someone who paid money to join a gym, even though they could just exercise at home by following workout videos on youtube for free. Why pay the money for the gym? Because they know that if their plan is just to exercise with youtube videos at home, in reality they're not going to do it. But if they're paying money for the gym, they will feel obligated to actually go and exercise. There really is value in these strategies to make yourself do something you know you should do.

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Microloans

The diary households in this book used a wide range of loans, from informal, semiformal, and formal sources. Some examples:

  • Buying groceries on credit
  • Getting an advance on one's salary
  • Interest-free loan from a neighbor
  • Loan from a local moneylender
  • Loan from a microfinance organization

Let's talk about the microfinance organizations.

When I was in college, sometime around 2010, I heard a lot about Kiva, a charity that provided microloans to people in developing countries. The story that was presented went like this: These people have such low incomes, and they can't get loans from normal financial institutions because those institutions don't think it's worth the trouble of doing business with such small amounts of money. If they need a loan, they have to go to a shady moneylender- and the moneylenders charge something like 300% annual interest, oh my goodness, that's terrible. But if they had access to loans with reasonable interest rates, wow, that could really turn their lives around. That could lift them out of poverty. The microloan recipients will be able to start their own businesses- whereas, without the microloan, they never would have been able to save up enough money for the initial capital investment to start their business. And having a business would totally change their life.

"Portfolios of the Poor" shows us that the reality is not really like that.

The reality is more like: 

Okay, so those predatory moneylenders you've heard about? It doesn't really make sense to talk about their annual interest rate, since the loans are often paid back very quickly. It makes sense to think of this cost as more of a fee, rather than interest. Also, people often renegotiate with the moneylenders about their interest payments and the term of the loan. It's very common for part or all of the interest to be forgiven. So if you see a moneylender loan presented as "it's x dollars, for y period of time" and then you use those numbers and calculate the annual interest rate, and your jaw hits the floor, well, no, that's not really an accurate way to look at it. When all is said and done, the total interest might be much lower, and the repayment schedule might be much longer. And there may be benefits in using a moneylender- like convenience, and how the moneylender may be someone who's been a member of your community for a long time, so you know they are reliable, and will probably be understanding if you need extra time to pay back the loan.

And the formal microloan organizations: Yes, it is good that those exist. It is an extremely useful resource to have. But the loans are not all used for entrepreneurial purposes. There was one example in the book of a household that used part of the money from a microloan to buy a cabinet to store their rice in. Something like that, which I would never think of as something one would need a loan for. I would take it for granted that you already have that. Something that doesn't really make for a good story about how these microloans are so amazing and they're rescuing people from poverty. No, it's not really like that.

There weren't any examples in the book where having microloans allowed someone to get to a standard of living that *in my opinion* can be described as "rising out of poverty." These people all had very hard lives- but having financial tools like microloans allowed them to get by, more or less, rather than having a financial emergency cascade into a disaster that affects every part of their life.

The book emphasized how extremely important it is that options such as microloans from formal providers are available to poor people. This is something that helps them a lot. But it doesn't look like the glamorous stories that charities tell, about how everyone is going to be an entrepreneur and escape from poverty. (The book emphasized that it would be most helpful if the loans could be used for any purpose at all- rather than requiring them to only be used for entrepreneurial reasons.)

The microloan organizations are a good thing. Don't misunderstand me. It is a very helpful resource to have. It's good that such organizations exist. But the reality doesn't match the romanticized story that we in the US have heard about microloans.

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The point is that poor people need a variety of financial tools

The book is all about how, when people's incomes are so low and irregular, it's even more important that they have access to financial tools to help them manage their money. The financial lives of these diary households were very complex. They had various methods of saving money, and chose to take different kinds of loans in different circumstances.

They use so many different financial tools, and it would benefit them even more if they had better ones. If they had reliable savings accounts. If they had access to loans with flexible repayment schedules. And so forth.

(And this was published in 2009, based on research from 1999-2005. So probably the situation has changed since then.)

I found this book extremely interesting and I'm glad I read it, because it paints a picture of what life is like for people in extreme poverty, in a way that actually feels *real* to me. I've always felt that, when I read statistics about global poverty, or see ads for charities, it doesn't make them look like real people. It makes them look like, their lives are so terrible I can't even imagine, so I should feel bad, until I give money to a charity, then I can stop feeling bad. Not so with this book. This actually shows poverty in human terms. People making plans, making choices based on their own preferences related to risk and so on. 

"Portfolios of the Poor" was not about charity at all (it was about how governments and private businesses should invest in building the kind of financial infrastructure that would help poor people), but I have some thoughts. It makes me think, maybe charity should actually be really boring. It shouldn't be about me swooping in and making a big payment that feels like a very dramatic, emotional sacrifice. It shouldn't be about how I'm gonna make a big difference and save people so easily. Instead, maybe we should think of it like, people who have high enough incomes should have a habit of regularly giving money to charities. Like, just really really boring stuff, just regular automatic donations that you don't really think much about, but you'll notice them if you look at your bank statements. It's not okay that poor people don't have good options for savings accounts, but at the same time, it doesn't make for an exciting story that people will rally around. (Though the issue about access to bank accounts should really be addressed by governments and businesses, rather than charities, so maybe this is not a good example for talking about charity.) So I think, it shouldn't be a big emotional thing, like it's super meaningful and you're saving people's lives and you have all kinds of feelings about it. It should be that, when you think about it morally, rich people *should* have the habit of giving money to charity. And those boring regular payments do make a difference- but it's sort of in terms of what's going on in the background, rather than being a really dramatic "wow I saved a child's life just now."

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Follow-up post: On Skipping My Daily $5 Starbucks

Related:

My Weird Hangups About Charity

"Winners Take All": Businesspeople Only Want To "Change The World" If It Makes Money

Sunday, May 18, 2025

Dog Hotels and Poverty Existing at the Same Time

Person and dog getting their picture taken in a cute Valentine's Day photo frame. From the linked article.

I read this article from NPR, Luxury dog hotels give some people pause amid the inequality of South Africa (wait, has the title been changed? now it's "Where luxury dog hotels are all the rage, but half the humans live in poverty"), by Tommy Trenchard, and I want to talk about it.

It's about luxury dog hotels in Cape Town, South Africa. The article highlights the contrast between the nice time these dogs are having, and the poverty in Cape Town:

At the same time, more than half of the population lives below the government's "upper bound poverty line" — the level at which people can afford adequate food, clothing and other basic necessities. And huge parts of the city struggle with high unemployment, rampant violent crime and a lack of adequate housing and reliable services.

The article describes the fancy services that the dogs get at the dog hotels, and some of it is quite over-the-top, like dog weddings. Doesn't it seem like there's something wrong with that happening in a place where such a huge proportion of people live in poverty? Why are rich people's dogs getting all these nice things, when there are homeless people who don't even have enough food to eat?

What I want to say is, the article seems to be implying that the customers who bring their dogs to the dog hotels are doing something wrong. Or the owners of the dog hotel businesses are doing something wrong. I don't think this framing is right- I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with being a customer or employer in the dog hotel industry while people live in crushing poverty geographically close to you. 

How close do they have to be, exactly, for it to be immoral? Why is that article talking about this like well-off people in South Africa are the ones who should feel guilty about this- aren't the rest of us well-off people outside of South Africa also living nice lives while poverty exists in Cape Town? I guess we're far enough away that we're not morally obligated to feel bad about it? This framing is all wrong. It reads like the readers are supposed to think "Well, *I* live in the US [or whatever "first world country"], so it's fine for me to send my dog to a nice dog hotel. But if I lived in South Africa, it would be morally wrong for me to do the exact same thing."

The fact that luxury dog hotels and extreme poverty both exist shows that something is wrong with society. Something is very wrong. But it's not about an individual dog owner's choice to send their dog there- they are not doing anything wrong. This is about society.

The article says that many of the dog owners who send their dogs to the hotel work full-time jobs, and they don't want to leave their dogs shut in at home all day. (I suspect that only a small proportion of the customers are paying the extra money for the fancy luxury stuff that the article describes in so much detail.) Well, yeah, that makes sense. If you have a dog, and it's not good for the dog to be alone at home all day, and you have enough money to send the dog to a dog hotel, then why not? You should totally do it. There's nothing wrong with that.

But also, you should donate money to help people. If you're in a good position financially, you should donate an amount of money that's (at the very least) in the ballpark of what you spend for yourself for things you like but don't really need. I've talked about this on the blog before- my approach is to make a plan once a year about how much money I want to donate during the year. Make a deliberate choice. I think a lot of people donate haphazardly if they see some charity ad that makes them feel bad- if you are financially comfortable, you should do better than that. 

So for these individual dog owners, they're not going to help anyone by feeling guilty about having access to a dog hotel. It doesn't help anyone, even if they feel so guilty they stop sending their dog there. What can actually help is donating money. Really what's needed is changes at the societal level- but you as an individual can't really do that- but at least you can donate money. But feeling bad about your dog doesn't help anyone. How about doing both- send your dog to the hotel, and also donate a sizable amount of money to help people?

I don't think you're morally obligated to give up everything you possibly can, and donate all your money except the bare minimum. I don't think it's workable to live that way. I think you should look at the things you typically spend money on, and think about which ones give you more or less value. For example, something costs you some amount of money and makes you really happy, and something else costs the same amount but doesn't really do much for your happiness- maybe stop spending money on the one that doesn't make you as happy. No need to give up both of them though- I don't think it's workable to live that way.

The dog hotel is an indication that something is wrong with society. But the dog hotel isn't the thing that's wrong, in and of itself. If you want to avail yourself of the services offered by the dog hotel, there's nothing wrong with that. Either way, you still have to live in a society that has something terribly wrong with it. 

(Either way, I'm sure you can find something to make yourself feel guilty about.)

I like this quote, from the end of the article:

"We can't be prioritizing the 5% over the 95%," says Luyanda Mtamzeli, of the legal non-profit Ndifuna Ukwazi, which campaigns against inequality and the lack of affordable housing in Cape Town. "You've got a huge number of people who need accommodation in the city, and then you've got the 5% of the population who need luxury hotels for their dogs. This whole situation underscores the lack of genuine political will to tackle the structural and deep-seated inequality that persists in Cape Town."

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I think the reason this article rubbed me the wrong way is because of my experiences with the different ways one can make oneself feel bad for having money and privilege when poverty also exists in this world. 

One way of looking at it is, I could have stayed in the US and gotten a job that pays much more than the job I have here in China. But I didn't want to do that because there's a ... there's a discomfort in the experience of things being easy, having enough money, being in the majority culture, but also knowing that other people in the world are living in extreme poverty- knowing that's real, but it's so disconnected from your life. It feels wrong, to live in a way that you know is not consistent with the actual reality of the average person in this world. Like you're in a bubble. Like the morally correct thing to do is leave all that behind and go live somewhere that Americans think is a "third world country."

(Which is not the real reason I moved to China, but it is a lens that has been relevant to my thinking.)

But then, you move, and life still goes on. I'm still myself, I still have a degree in engineering and haven't had any problems with having enough money to live my life. Life is still as real and complex. I have an office job and I make more money than what the average person in Shanghai makes. It's not enough for really pricy stuff that I hear about some Chinese and/or international people spending money on, like buying a home or sending their kids to international schools, but it's much higher than the average person in Shanghai. I'm still in a bubble.

And if you're American and you like dogs, then you move to South Africa, you're still a person who likes dogs, who has experience having a pet dog. You're still that person, so you get a dog. (There's nothing wrong with being that person! Everyone's life is complicated and full of individual experiences like that.) And something that is normal in the US- sending your dog to a boarding or dog-walking service when you're at work- if you do the exact same thing in South Africa, suddenly it's this ethically-questionable thing, because you're geographically closer to poverty than you used to be?

(But, note that probably most customers for the dog hotel are South African, rather than being international people who moved there from other countries.)

So, in other words, you can feel bad for living far away from poverty, and also, you can feel bad for living close to poverty.

I don't think this "feeling bad" helps anyone at all. What really needs to happen is for society to change, so that everyone can get their basic needs met. To whatever extent we can advocate for that, or donate money to charities that are helping poor people, let's do it. But you can still buy nice things for yourself and your dog sometimes.

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Related:

My Weird Hangups About Charity

Wednesday, May 14, 2025

Blogaround

Links not related to the antichrist:

1. 9 different density layers (April 18) 44-second video. Wow this is really cool! It's a science experiment about liquids with different densities, settling in layers on top of each other, and then you drop objects into it to see how far they sink.

2. Failed Soviet Venus lander Kosmos 482 crashes to Earth after 53 years in orbit (May 10) "Kosmos 482 launched toward Earth's hellishly hot sister planet in 1972, but a problem with its rocket stranded the spacecraft in an elliptical orbit around Earth. For the next 53 years, atmospheric drag pulled the probe down slowly but surely, leading to today's dramatic denouement."

3. Sell All You Have and Give to the Poor (May 3) "When Jesus then tells them that, effectively, none of the other rich and powerful are going to be persuaded to join them either, what is perplexing the disciples is how the Jesus movement can now possibly succeed."

4. Should A Woman Be Forced To Carry A Dead Fetus For Weeks? South Carolina Says 'Yes!' (May 9) "In an update, Weber explained that she was told both by the doctors and by a lawyer that the way the South Carolina law works is that, if she were to have gone to an appointment where the doctor detected a “heartbeat” (not a heartbeat), and then gone to a second appointment where they didn’t detect one, she would have been able to get the D&C or abortion pills right away. However, if you go to your first appointment and they tell you there’s no heartbeat and the fetus has been dead for three weeks, as happened with her, you have to wait two weeks to get one. If you go to the emergency room and get a more comprehensive diagnosis, they’ll shorten the waiting period to 11 days. Does this make sense? No, of course not. But it’s what happens when you have people with no medical background, who don’t know what they’re talking about, writing laws based on their own personal feelings."

5. Why Hospital Policies Matter in States That Ban Abortion (May 7) "ProPublica has documented widespread differences in how hospitals across the country have translated abortion bans into policy. Some have supported doctors in treating active miscarriages and high-risk cases with procedures technically considered abortions; others have forbidden physicians from doing so, or left them on their own to decide, with no legal backing in case of arrest."

6. The FDA approves first U.S. at-home tool as a Pap-smear alternative (May 10) !!!!!! This is great news! Instead of going to a gynecologist to have a pap smear, you can use this tool to collect your own sample and send it off to get screened for cervical cancer. Very excited to hear this, as a person who used to have vaginismus and has had a lot of problems and trauma related to gynecological exams.

(But also, I had complicated feelings reading this article, when it describes pap smears as "a procedure generations of women have dreaded and often found painful." Really? Generations of women? Since when? Then why did everyone act like *I* was the one being unreasonable when I found it to be painful and traumatic? ... I guess this is sort of a #metoo thing- it turns out that a lot of us have experienced this trauma, and we were all pressured to downplay it, and treated like something was wrong with us if we weren't able to pretend everything was fine. But it turns out that this is actually a widespread problem, and it's time to speak up about it.)

7. Pascal's Law (May 9)

8. The Moderate Case Against Transgender Sports Bans (May 12) Good article. I think for a lot of people, when they hear about the debate over trans women playing in women's sports, they imagine that the pro-trans side is saying that any man can just decide "I identify as a woman" and then immediately compete in any women's sport- and that seems really wrong. Well, no, fortunately, it doesn't work that way. That is NOT what trans people are arguing for. 

The guidelines should be different for different sports, and different for different levels (professional sports, high school teams, little kids just running around on a soccer field, etc). The sports organizations should be making their own rules based on what's reasonable and fair for their specific sport. That's not what these political trans bans are doing at all- they're just about hating trans people.

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Links related to the antichrist:

1. Zero ships from China are bound for California’s top ports. Officials haven’t seen that since the pandemic (May 10)

But here's an update about that: US and China agree to slash tariffs for 90 days (May 12)

2. MAGA melts down over ‘WOKE MARXIST POPE’ who is a ‘Never Trumper liberal’ (May 8) A reminder that normal human decency will have MAGAs shrieking that you are a "WOKE MARXIST"- so like, don't try to contort yourself in an effort to present yourself in a way that will not lead to them saying that- it's not possible, they're going to say that anyway.

3. Rümeysa Öztürk, Tufts student held by Ice, vows to continue legal action after jail release (May 11)

4. First, do no harm—unless you're intersex or trans (May 6, via) "Lurie, however, kept its “pause” in place even then. New York Presbyterian/Weill Cornell removed references to gender-affirming care from its website—even striking puberty-pausing medication from its list of services—but still promotes surgery to reduce “enlarged” clitorises on intersex six-month-olds."

5. Alliance Defending Freedom: Last Week Tonight with John Oliver (HBO) (May 12) !!!! Really glad to see John Oliver doing an episode on ADF. I grew up evangelical- my family got the newsletters from Focus on the Family and ADF (back when its name was Alliance Defense Fund). I read them all. They sent us the book "The Homosexual Agenda" and I read it. I really believed all their bullshit back then.

ADF wasn't just about opposing the legalization of same-sex marriage. They opposed any kind of legal protections for LGBT people at all. Seriously. It is not just about same-sex marriage. It's about queer people existing at all.

When I was in high school in the 2000's, there was this thing called "Day of Silence" when some students who were LGBT/allies would not talk for the entire day, as a way to call attention to the struggles that LGBT people face. ADF came up with a competing event called "Day of Truth," where students could go to their school and hand out literature about how gay people need to just repress themselves and follow God's law, and God will help free them from that "lifestyle" and become straight. That's the sort of thing ADF was into.

This is why I'm so angry, whenever I talk about what evangelicals think about queer issues- because I really did believe all their bullshit propaganda back then. Gay people are one-dimensional villains twirling their mustaches and plotting to destroy marriage because they hate God and they are into disgusting obscene sex stuff. Then eventually- because of the internet- I started reading what actual gay Christians had to say, and it turns out none of that was true.

I had believed ADF because... we were Christians, right? The leaders of ADF were good Christian role models, working so hard to follow God, to live the way God wanted us to live, to fight for what was right. Just like little teenage Perfect Number. And then to find out that all of it was bullshit, that their entire schtick is spreading hateful lies about a group of people. They know it's lies. They know. Is that what Jesus would want? This is why I'm so angry, as a queer Christian.

So yeah, nowadays, every lawsuit that Republicans are involved in, trying to ban abortion or be mean to queer people or generally force Christian symbols on all parts of government/schools/society- yeah, it's ADF lawyers doing it. Of course it is.

(One thing I will say about John Oliver's take, though- about the part where the conservative cake shop guy says he won't make a cake for a gay wedding, just like he won't make a pedophile cake- and John Oliver is astonished at how bizarre of a concept it is, a pedophile cake. Uh, that's one of the huge talking points from evangelical anti-gay groups- that homosexuality is adjacent to pedophilia. That gay people are more likely to be pedophiles and therefore shouldn't be allowed near kids. That if same-sex marriage is legal, there's no reason it shouldn't also be legal to sexually abuse children- there's no actual meaningful difference that would lead society to allow same-sex marriage but draw the line at child sexual abuse. This is an extremely common anti-gay talking point. I am 0% surprised this cake guy talks about being asked to make a pedophile cake as if that's the natural thing that would happen next if he made a cake for a gay wedding.)

Oh, and in case it's not obvious: They also believe trans people don't really exist.

6. “They’re Trying to Kidnap Someone” (May 10, via) "Surrounding them are a few dozen community members who were tipped off about the ICE raid and got to it before the police did. Before I arrived, they demanded to see a warrant. The ICE agents refused to provide one, so they created a human chain, which the ICE officers eventually broke through."

7. Episcopal Church leader says helping Afrikaners over other refugees is 'unfathomable' (May 13) "And the idea that we would be somehow resettling Afrikaners at this point over other refugees, who have been vetted and waiting in camps for months or even years, is unfathomable to us."

8. Rabbi and Cantor Alums of Brown Write To the University: (April 17) "President Trump’s attack on Brown and other universities has nothing whatsoever to do with combatting antisemitism. It weaponizes antisemitism and could, ironically, evoke classical sentiments of resentment toward the Jewish community, whose name is being scapegoated as a conduit for an ulterior motive."

9. Trump administration's universal flu vaccine project puzzles scientists (May 13) At first I was like, "a universal flu vaccine? Hey, if it works, that would be great!" But then I read the whole article and now I'm like, "this sounds like a bad idea."

"'We're going back to technology that was used 40, 50 years ago or more. So this is a little surprising to me why you would go backwards to this technology? It's a very old technology,' Poland says. 'This is what influenza vaccines in the 40s, 50s and 60s looked like.'"

10. A matchmaking service with a twist: Connecting big givers to programs cut by USAID (May 13) "'I think it's clear that private philanthropy is not going to be able to fill all the gaps,' says Weiss. 'But what we can do is staunch the bleeding, keep projects functioning so that it's possible for local organizations or local governments to take them over.'"


Tuesday, April 15, 2025

Blogaround

Links not related to the antichrist:

1. Twitterlike is a Bad Shape (April 12, via) "A share addition feature (or "quote posts") can poison site culture by giving people a reason to share bad posts for no other reason than just to announce they disagree."

2. Pig kidney transplant fails after patient rejection (April 11) "'For the first time since 2016, I enjoyed time with friends and family without planning around dialysis treatments. Though the outcome is not what anyone wanted, I know a lot was learned from my 130 days with a pig kidney—and that this can help and inspire many others in their journey to overcome kidney disease,' she said." This is really cool! Even though it failed, this is progress.

3. Tennessee’s "Success Sequence" law ignores what really makes kids successful (April 11) Posting this because yeah this is what I always heard, from republican role models when I was growing up, about why we shouldn't push for systemic changes to help minimum wage workers, single moms, etc. Because the way it's SUPPOSED to work [apparently] is you go to college, graduate, get a good job, get married, and then have kids. If there's a news article about a single mom who is struggling to get by in a minimum wage job- well yeah, it's not SUPPOSED to be doable to try to raise kids on a minimum wage income. We don't need to change society, we need to blame people for not following the life plan they're supposed to. If we raised the minimum wage, that would unfairly mess things up for the people who did things the right way. That's what I learned from republicans...

4. What happened to all the clothing donated during the LA wildfires? (April 14) This is really interesting- I'm very curious about how it works when people donate clothes, because I suspect that the reality is very different from whatever magical ideal is in donors' minds. Anyway, the important thing to always remember is, check with the recipients to confirm what kinds of things they want, before you donate- don't just assume that you're doing a good thing by giving them your random stuff.

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Links related to the antichrist. As always, you don't need to read all these if you're too stressed out. Instead, go protest or help immigrants.

1. Trump Is Separating Immigrant Families Again. Here’s What We Can Do About It. (April 11) "The new administration has unleashed a torrent of policies that have caused irreparable harm to people and families seeking safety."

2. Trump attacks on law firms begin to chill pro bono work on causes he doesn't like (April 13) "If the legal profession doesn't push back now, Levi said, the whole idea of equal justice and the justice system is vulnerable."

3. Feds to collect personal info of people exchanging, sending money from U.S.-Mexico border (April 10) "'Providing your social to exchange two hundred dollars is ridiculous,' Guerra said."

So, there are legitimate reasons that governments would want to know who exactly is sending money internationally. But I don't trust this government is doing it for any of those reasons.

4. Think Twice: China Tells Tourists and Students Eyeing the U.S. (April 14) 

5. Trump told us the horrifying reason why Kilmar Abrego Garcia is not back in the U.S. (April 15) "Trump said the plan: The Trump administration wants this foreign prison — and, perhaps, others — to hold many people sent from America, including U.S. citizens."

And: SMART-TD Stands With Brother Kilmar Abrego Garcia (April 10)

6. Trump administration freezes more than $2.2 billion after Harvard rejects its demands (April 14) "Earlier in the day, Alan Garber, Harvard's president, said in a letter to faculty and students that the university would not submit to a list of demands made last Friday. Among them are that it eliminate DEI programs, screen international students who are 'supportive of terrorism or anti-Semitism' and ensure 'viewpoint diversity' in its hiring." Good. Say no to him. For the universities/ companies/ law firms who cave to his demands, that won't be the end of it- he will continue to demand more things from them. If they're doing a calculation about how they can manage to kinda accept his deal- well, don't, because whatever he says is not the actual deal. If you accept it, it will end up being worse than what he said.

7. Haunted by hopelessness: 12 Zambians share their stories as HIV drugs run out (April 14) "An untold number of people with HIV have simply and suddenly lost access to their medication."

8. Should I stay or go? Immigrants across U.S. consider self-deportation (April 14) "'We're scared. We stay indoors all day,' Rosa, a heavily pregnant Honduran woman in Waukegan, Ill., told NPR back in January."

9. Trump can't revoke legal status of migrants from Cuba, Haiti, Nicaragua and Venezuela, judge rules (April 14) "The 'early termination, without any case-by-case justification, of legal status for noncitizens who have complied with DHS programs and entered the country lawfully undermines the rule of law,' wrote Talwani, who sits on the federal district court in Boston." A little bit of good news.

Sunday, April 13, 2025

I'm FASCINATED By Charities Asking Me To Pay Their Processing Fees

Credit cards. Image source.

Here's something I noticed recently, that happened on several different charities' websites: I go to set up a monthly donation, let's say for $10, and then the website asks me if I want to pay for the credit card processing fee, by changing my donation to $10.30 instead.

I'm so fascinated by this!

Why are they framing it as "pay the processing fees so that your entire donation will go toward supporting our work"? When I was planning to donate them $10, I didn't care about the internal workings of how that $10 gets divided up and spent on different things. Asking me to pay the credit card processing fees feels like we're in a universe where the donor is like, "I want to give $10 to this charity. But what's this? There's a processing fee so the whole $10 doesn't actually go to the charity? Oh no, we can't have that! I want $10 to go to the charity! I need to add this small amount to my $10 in order to pay the processing fee."

Why does it matter that there's a credit card processing fee? This is really no different than just asking me "Hey could you donate $10.30 instead of $10.00?" And if I feel like $10.30 is fine, then I say yes. Why bring up the credit card processing fee, as if that matters? Are they also going to say "25 cents of your donation goes toward keeping the heat running at our office, would you like to increase your donation by 25 cents so that the whole original amount will go to the work we do?"

I mean, the fact that there's a processing fee doesn't really matter. They're just asking if you could give a little bit more, and then floating this excuse about the credit card processing fee so that there's some pretext of logic to their request.

When this happens to me, sometimes I say yes. If I just had a vague idea that I want to give this charity $10, but I didn't plan out a very exact budget- then sure, the 30 cents doesn't matter to me, so I say yes. But if I've already made a plan like "I want to give x amount of dollars to different charities every month, I will subdivide it among these different organizations, I will give this amount to this one", then I say no when they ask me to pay the processing fee. I've already made a plan! I've already decided what amount to give to charity! I'm not gonna just change it- if I was willing to give 30 cents more, then that would have been factored into the plan at a much earlier step.

This "can you also pay our processing fee" is the sort of thing that works well on donors who decided to give $10 just because it's a nice round number, not because that's the maximum amount that would make sense for their budget.

So it's presented like it's for donors who are so incredibly concerned about controlling the exact details of their donation, who feel like "it's VERY IMPORTANT to me that the charity receives 10 dollars from me, NOT less than 10 dollars due to a credit card fee"- but actually it's for donors who are so unconcerned that they're like "oh, 10 dollars, or 10 dollars and 30 cents? yeah sure whatever."

I really don't think there exists a person who says "I am willing to give exactly 10 dollars- oh but now that you've told me that credit card processing fees exist, that changes everything- now I am willing to give $10.30."

Don't get me wrong: when I say I'm fascinated by this, I'm not criticizing the charities. Nothing wrong with them asking for a bit more, and then making it painless for you to say either yes or no. Nothing wrong with that. It strikes me as a good strategy, because probably a lot of donors will feel like "oh sure whatever, just increase it by a few cents, who cares."

I'm just so fascinated by the psychology of it. Why bring up the credit card processing fee? It doesn't matter! I don't care what they specifically use every small part of my donation for- I just care about the work they are doing overall. (And I think if people are overly concerned about the credit card processing fee, that's illogical.) But instead of asking "hey could you maybe give a little bit more?" they say "hey can you maybe give a little bit more because of the credit card processing fee?" Oh my goodness, this is so fascinating.

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Related:

My Weird Hangups About Charity

Wednesday, March 12, 2025

Blogaround

Links not related to the antichrist:

1. Facing up to the Price on Life (January 29) "I think it’s very important to appreciate that there is no such compulsion: you can acknowledge reality, do a bunch more good than almost anyone else, and still live an incredibly privileged—even self-indulgent—life."

Very excited to find this post- finally, someone is talking about something I've been worried about my entire life: If there are so many people in need in the world, and I have more money than I need, shouldn't I donate literally as much as I possibly can, causing huge hardship to myself? How can it be okay for me to have a savings account when there are people going through emergencies right now? And this writer comes to the same solution as I have: compartmentalize. Decide on a total amount to give- this should be pretty big, bigger than what the average person gives- and then use the rest of the money for myself and quit worrying about if I'm doing enough.

2. Two Americas, one bank branch, and $50,000 cash (March 5) "A style magazine published an account of a large cash withdrawal that didn't match my understanding of banking reality. I burned several thousand dollars and a year investigating. I now doubt that account less, because I understand the context better." Yessssssss this is the exact kind of fact-checking content I am interested in.

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Links related to the antichrist:

1. D.C.'s Black Lives Matter mural will be erased. Look back at the iconic street painting (March 8)

2. Trump DOJ's limits on FACE Act enforcement fuel concern from abortion providers (March 9) "The law prohibits threat of force, obstruction and property damage meant to interfere with reproductive health care services, including abortion."

3. DOD Will No Longer Prohibit Contractors from Running Segregated Facilities (March 6) I don't know what to make of this- I've seen commenters on the internet talking about this like it means the government wants to allow racial segregation, but I don't think we should interpret it that way. I mean, yes these people are really racist and are undoing laws that were put in place during the civil rights movement, but I don't think *this specific example* is about that. Let's be careful we don't misrepresent what's going on. I think this- getting rid of the policies that banned segregation in the military- is because those policies included protections for trans people.

4. “Absurd, nonsensical, and unimplementable”: Students react as D.C. U.S. Attorney takes aim at DEI and Georgetown Law (March 9) "'Their definition of DEI is hopelessly vague,' David Super, a GULC professor, said. 'They’re talking about some things that are completely unobjectionable, some things that are controversial, and some things that probably don’t exist at all, all under that one heading, which is irresponsible.'"

5. Hundreds protest Trump administration arrest of Columbia student leader Mahmoud Khalil (March 11) "Khalil's attorneys said he is a green card holder married to an American citizen, and are challenging the validity of the arrest and detention."

6. Trump Makes Supporting Trans People Ineligible For Public Service Loan Forgiveness Via EO (March 11) "Clearly, many organizations could be swept up in this attempt to remove Public Service Loan Forgiveness for those supporting transgender people." This is alarming. The MAGAs aren't just being mean to trans people- they're trying to require everyone else to be mean to trans people too.

Also from Erin in the Morning: "Have You No Decency?": Republican Calls Sarah McBride "Mister," Dems Erupt And End Hearing (March 12) 

7. Love Knows No Borders: Walls, Deportations, & Tariffs (February 7) "During COVID, you may have seen on the news that some couples found ways around border restrictions. One way was to visit each other at the border. Meaning that we found a Canadian road that ran east-west, parallel to a US road. The ditch between these two roads was the actual border."

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